Let’s cut to the chase: Pegging is when someone wears a strap-on to anally penetrate their partner. No, it’s not just for queer couples or BDSM enthusiasts—it’s for anyone curious about flipping the script on penetration.
And guess what? It’s way more common than you think. From Deadpool to Broad City, pop culture’s been low-key normalizing it for years. So if you’re intrigued (or just pegging-curious), here’s your starter kit—no awkwardness, just facts.
Why Try Pegging?
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Prostate Play = Next-Level Orgasms
- The prostate (aka the "P-spot") is a pleasure powerhouse. Stimulate it right, and boom—full-body Os.
- Fun fact: Some guys report prostate orgasms feeling stronger than penile ones.
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Power Play (Or Role Reversal)
- Dominant/submissive dynamics? Sure. But pegging can also just be playful exploration—no roles required.
- Switch it up: Let the receiver control the depth/speed for a "you’re in charge… but make me beg" vibe.
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The Giver Gets Off Too
- Strap-ons with clitoral stimulators (like this one) can make wearing just as fun as receiving.
- Mental turn-on: Watching your partner unravel? Priceless.
Pegging Prep: Don’t Skip This
1. The Talk (No, Not That Talk)
- Bring it up casually: "Hey, I read about pegging—ever thought about trying it?"
- Discuss vibes: Kinky domination? Giggly experimentation? Get on the same page.
- Safe word = mandatory. "Red" for stop, "yellow" for slow down, "green" for "holy shit, keep going."
2. Gear Up
- Harness + dildo: Start with a beginner kit (adjustable harness + slim silicone toy).
- Lube is non-negotiable. Thick silicone or hybrid lube = best for anal. Water-based dries too fast.
- Toy cleaner: Because bacteria is not a sexy souvenir.
3. Warm-Up Matters
- Massage first: Fingers, tongues, or toys to relax the area. No jackhammering.
- Start small: Use a finger or slim toy before the strap-on.
Best Beginner Positions
1.Doggy Style
Classic for a reason. Lets the giver control depth while the receiver arches for easy access.
2.Receiver on Top
Partner with the strap-on lies back; receiver straddles and lowers slowly. Bonus: They control the pace.
3.Missionary (But Make It Pegging)
Receiver lies on their back, legs bent. More intimate, easier eye contact.
Pegging Pro Tips
- Re-lube like it’s your job. If you think "maybe we need more lube," you’re already late.
- Go slow. Anal muscles need time to adjust. No porn-star thrusting.
- Clean-up hack: Lay down a towel, keep wipes handy, and shower after if you’re extra cautious.
Aftercare: Don’t Ghost the Feels
- Check in: "How’d that feel for you?"
- Hydrate + snack: Sex is a workout.
- Laugh it off: If something was awkward, own it. "Well, that was… a learning experience!"
Pegging isn’t just about anal—it’s about exploration, trust, and killer orgasms. Start slow, communicate like your sex life depends on it (it does), and have fun.
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